Terry’s blog

Empty Boxes

Christmas Eve, a young father watches his 3-year-old daughter do her best to wrap a present. Using a roll of expensive gold-foil wrapping paper, the girl cut and re-cuts, and uses up most of the roll. The longer the father stays the angrier he becomes, but says nothing, and watches as [...]

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Lionel Train Set

Garrison Keillor tells the story about a young boy who wanted a Lionel Train Set for Christmas.

The father, of a family of seven, was in the hospital and unable to work. The mother, worried about money did her best to prepare the children, “I’m sorry, but we won’t be able to have [...]

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To wait

For the Christian faith, it is Advent, waiting for the birth of the Prince of Peace. With its requisite spat over whether we use Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. What a worthy debate, as we jostle one another, both hands loaded with shopping bags from Macys, Nordstrom [...]

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Real People, Real Communication

Each of us desires relationships that are healthy–with trust, compassion, laughter, honesty and touch.
There’s only one problem… Each of us moves away from the very things we desire.
If only we could find that one person who could make it all okay… Here’s the deal:

Intimacy has little to do with the other person.
Intimacy begins with [...]

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Running

Anybody can find something they can do
–and do well.
I like to show people
you can either stop trying,
or you can pick yourself up
and keep going.
It is just more fun
to keep going. Ben Comen

Ben Comen holds the record as the slowest cross-country runner in the United States of America. On a typical 3.1 mile [...]

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Touch

To touch can be to give life. Michelangelo

An eleven-year-old girl lived with her grandmother. Labeled “different,” adjustment to school was not easy. Her mother was not a reliable presence. As if life is not tough enough, her father had been recently killed. She knew him only vaguely, but not well and had [...]

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Healing love

In September, New Yorker magazine featured an article by Johnathan Safran Foer (who wrote a novel about a boy who lost his father in the twin towers tragedy) talking about the tragedy of 9/11.

“Is there anyone who hasn’t played out the nightmare of having been [...]

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Look at me

Toward the end of his life, Bruce had an advanced case of Parkinson’s. One of the symptoms is particularly disconcerting. Sometimes when Bruce sees a line on the floor (perhaps because his eyes are cast down, watching his feet, fearing a loss of balance?), he stops, immobilized, because he “sees” [...]

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Big Leaf Dance

My son loves to dance. As soon as Zachary learned to walk, he began to dance. He would spin, hop, and slap his feet on our hardwood floor. Beethoven or the Beatles, he’s not picky about the music. Now almost seven, with his arms in the air, he looks like a [...]

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Freedom

The shot is true, a low laser, past an outstretched goalie, into the corner of the net.  After he scores, Mr. Parker performs a joy unrestrained airborne jig, and bumps torsos with another teammate as the fans dance and cheer, GOOOOOOAL!
What makes this story so special?   Mr. Parker has only one leg.  [...]

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